As a sex worker, your health and safety should always come first. Practicing safe sex not only protects you from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) but also ensures your overall well-being. At Intimate Link, we believe that education and awareness are key to staying safe.
Here’s everything you need to know about safe sex practices, protection methods, and how to handle risky situations.
1. Why Safe Sex Matters
Sex workers are often exposed to a higher risk of STIs and unwanted situations due to the nature of their work. While most clients are respectful, some may try to push boundaries or refuse protection.
Practicing safe sex helps you:
✅ Avoid STIs – Protect yourself from infections like HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhoea, and syphilis.
✅ Prevent Unplanned Pregnancies – Even if pregnancy isn’t a concern, it’s always best to be prepared.
✅ Maintain Professional Boundaries – Safe sex policies help reinforce your rules with clients.
📌 Tip: Never let a client pressure you into unsafe practices. Your safety and health come first.
2. Essential Protection Methods
Here are the best ways to protect yourself during work:
1. Condoms (Male & Female)
- The most effective barrier against STIs.
- Always check expiry dates and use a new condom for each client.
- Keep a variety of sizes to prevent excuses from clients.
2. Dental Dams
- A thin barrier placed over the vagina or anus during oral sex.
- Prevents transmission of STIs like herpes and HPV.
3. Lubrication
- Reduces friction and helps prevent condom breakage.
- Water-based lube is best for latex condoms (oil-based lubes can cause breakage).
4. Regular STI Testing
- Get tested every 3–6 months, or more frequently if you see multiple clients.
- Many clinics offer free and confidential STI testing.
5. Vaccinations
- Consider getting HPV and Hepatitis B vaccinations for extra protection.
📌 Tip: Keep extra condoms and lube in your bag, car, or work location. Running out should never be an excuse!
3. Dealing with Clients Who Refuse Protection
Some clients may try to persuade you into unsafe sex. Here’s how to handle it:
🚩 Red Flags:
❌ “I’m clean, I just got tested.”
❌ “I’ll pay extra for no condom.”
❌ “I don’t like how condoms feel.”
❌ “Just this once, I promise.”
💡 How to Respond:
✔ Be firm: “I don’t offer unprotected services under any circumstances.”
✔ Stick to your rules: If they refuse, end the booking immediately.
✔ Blacklist & block them: Report unsafe clients to sites like ClientEye or National Ugly Mugs.
📌 Tip: Your body, your rules. No amount of money is worth risking your health.
4. How to Protect Yourself from STIs
Even with protection, it’s good to stay informed about STI prevention and treatment:
🔹 Get tested regularly – Routine STI tests help catch infections early.
🔹 Use PEP after potential exposure – If a condom breaks or you’re at risk, Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) can prevent HIV if taken within 72 hours.
🔹 Consider PrEP for extra HIV protection – Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) is a daily pill that significantly reduces the risk of contracting HIV.
🔹 Check for visible symptoms – If a client has sores, rashes, or unusual discharge, do not proceed.
📌 Tip: Many clinics offer discreet and free STI tests—take advantage of these services!
5. Aftercare: Taking Care of Yourself
Your health is just as important after seeing a client. Here’s how to stay safe and feel your best:
💦 Shower or freshen up after each session.
🩺 Self-check for any irritation, cuts, or symptoms.
💊 If exposed, seek medical attention immediately.
🧘♀️ Practice self-care – Your mental health is just as important as physical safety.
📌 Tip: Keep a “go-to” aftercare kit with wipes, sanitiser, clean clothes, and fresh water.
Final Thoughts: Prioritise Your Safety
Safe sex isn’t just about using protection—it’s about setting boundaries, staying informed, and prioritising your well-being. As a sex worker, you have the right to demand protection and refuse unsafe requests.
At Intimate Link, we’re committed to providing resources, advice, and support to keep you safe. Explore more in our Sex Worker Safety Hub. 💜