Working at night can come with additional risks, making personal safety a top priority for sex workers. Whether you’re meeting clients in public or private spaces, taking the right precautions can help protect you from potential dangers.
At Intimate Link, we prioritise your safety and well-being. Here are essential night safety tips to help you stay secure while working.
1. Always Let Someone Know Your Whereabouts
- Tell a trusted friend or colleague where you are going and when you expect to return.
- Share your real-time location using apps like Google Maps, WhatsApp, or Kitestring.
- Have a pre-arranged check-in system with someone you trust.
Why It’s Important:
If something goes wrong, someone will know your location and be able to raise the alarm if needed.
2. Screen Clients Before Meeting
- Use platforms like National Ugly Mugs (NUM) or ClientEye to check if a client has been reported for bad behaviour.
- Have a phone or video call before meeting to gauge their attitude and intentions.
- Trust your gut—if something feels off, do not proceed with the booking.
Why It’s Important:
Pre-screening clients helps you avoid potential timewasters, abusive individuals, or dangerous situations.
3. Choose Safe Meeting Locations
- If meeting in public, opt for well-lit, busy areas like cafes, hotels, or restaurants.
- If working indoors, ensure you have a clear exit and access to help if needed.
- Avoid isolated areas, dark alleyways, or unfamiliar neighbourhoods.
Why It’s Important:
Being in a public, visible location reduces the risk of harm and makes it easier to get help if needed.
4. Have a Personal Safety Plan
- Carry a panic alarm or a discreet safety device in case of emergencies.
- Have an exit strategy—know how to leave quickly if a situation turns uncomfortable.
- Memorise emergency contacts and ensure your phone is fully charged.
Why It’s Important:
Having a plan in place allows you to act quickly in case of danger.
5. Stay Aware & Alert
- Be mindful of your surroundings and avoid distractions like loud music or texting while walking.
- Watch for red flags like a client acting overly aggressive, controlling, or refusing to follow your boundaries.
- If possible, work with a friend or within a network for added security.
Why It’s Important:
Awareness helps you anticipate and avoid potentially dangerous situations.
6. Keep Your Personal Information Private
- Use a work phone number instead of your personal one.
- Avoid sharing your real name, home address, or other identifying details.
- Consider using a VPN when communicating online to protect your location and data.
Why It’s Important:
Maintaining privacy reduces the risk of stalking, harassment, or unwanted contact.
7. Carry Essential Safety Items
- A fully charged phone with emergency contacts saved.
- A panic alarm or pepper spray (where legal).
- Extra cash or a contactless card for quick transport.
- A power bank to keep your phone charged throughout the night.
Why It’s Important:
Having the right tools on hand ensures you’re prepared for any situation.
8. Trust Your Instincts
- If something doesn’t feel right, leave immediately—your safety comes first.
- Don’t be afraid to cancel a booking or walk away from a situation that makes you uncomfortable.
- Always listen to your gut feelings—they’re often right.
Why It’s Important:
Your instincts are one of the best safety tools you have. Never ignore warning signs.
Final Thoughts: Your Safety Matters
At Intimate Link, we want you to feel safe and empowered in your work. Taking simple precautions can help prevent dangerous situations and give you peace of mind while working at night.
For more safety resources, visit our Sex Worker Safety Hub, where you can find support, advice, and tools to help you stay secure.
Stay safe and look after yourself. 💜