Sex work, like any profession, comes with risks. Whether you work independently, through an agency, online, or in-person, your safety should always come first.
At Intimate Link, we’re committed to providing practical safety advice, resources, and tools to help sex workers stay protected and empowered. Here’s how you can minimise risks and work more safely.
- Screening Clients Carefully
One of the best ways to stay safe is to thoroughly screen your clients before meeting them. Here’s how:
🔹 Ask for ID or employment details – A genuine client won’t hesitate to share basic information.
🔹 Request a deposit – Timewasters and dangerous individuals often refuse to pay upfront.
🔹 Check blacklists – Use sites like ClientEye or National Ugly Mugs (NUM) to see if the client has been reported.
🔹 Do a video call – This helps verify their identity and weed out fake profiles.
🔹 Trust your instincts – If something feels off, it’s okay to decline.
- Always Work in a Safe Environment
Your location can significantly impact your safety. Consider these tips:
🏠 Choose a secure venue – If working from home, install security cameras, strong locks, and an alarm system.
🏨 Book a hotel with reception staff – They can monitor who comes and goes.
🏢 Rent a professional workspace – Some sex workers rent apartments together for safety.
🚕 Use secure transport – Avoid walking alone at night; use licensed taxis or ride-hailing apps.
- Have a Safety Plan in Place
Preparing for emergencies can make all the difference. Here’s what to do:
📱 Set up a check-in system – Arrange for a friend to call or text at set times.
🔴 Use a panic alarm – Apps like Hollie Guard alert your contacts when triggered.
🆘 Have an exit plan – Always know how to leave quickly if needed.
👮 Know your legal rights – If you face violence, report it to National Ugly Mugs (NUM) or the police.
- Avoid High-Risk Situations
Certain red flags indicate a potentially dangerous client. Watch out for:
🚩 Clients refusing to share personal details.
🚩 Requests for bareback (unprotected) services.
🚩 Sudden changes in location or last-minute requests.
🚩 Clients appearing intoxicated or aggressive.
🚩 Pushy behaviour about your boundaries or rates.
If a client disrespects your rules, don’t engage—your safety comes first.
- Use Technology to Protect Yourself
Technology can help you stay safe and anonymous. Here’s how:
🔒 Use a separate work phone – Keep your personal number private.
🔒 Get a VPN – Protect your online location with services like NordVPN.
🔒 Use encrypted messaging – Apps like Signal or ProtonMail add extra security.
🔒 Blur your face in photos – Some sites, like FacePixelizer, let you hide your identity.
- Prioritise Your Health & Well-being
Your physical and mental health matter. Protect yourself by:
❤️ Getting regular STI checks – Visit an NHS Sexual Health Clinic or Terrence Higgins Trust.
❤️ Practicing safe sex – Always use condoms, dental dams, and lube.
❤️ Taking mental health breaks – Seek support from Mind UK or Samaritans if needed.
Sex work can be emotionally challenging. Never hesitate to reach out for help and support.
- Join a Support Network
Connecting with other sex workers can be a lifeline. Consider joining:
👥 National Ugly Mugs (NUM) – Report dangerous clients & access victim support.
👥 SWARM (Sex Worker Advocacy & Resistance Movement) – Peer support & legal advice.
👥 English Collective of Prostitutes (ECP) – Advocacy & safety resources.
👥 Reddit r/SexWorkers – An online community sharing safety tips.
Final Thoughts: Your Safety Comes First
Sex work should never mean compromising your well-being or security. By screening clients, using technology, setting boundaries, and accessing support, you can work more safely and with confidence.
At Intimate Link, we’re here to empower and protect all sex workers. For more safety tips, visit our Sex Worker Safety Hub.
💜 Stay safe, trust your instincts, and always put yourself first. 💜