When working in the escort industry, screening clients is one of the most important steps to ensure your safety. Taking the time to verify potential clients can help you avoid timewasters, abusive individuals, and dangerous situations.
At Intimate Link, we encourage escorts and service providers to prioritise their security by implementing thorough screening practices. Here’s a guide on how to effectively screen clients before meeting them.
1. Ask for Essential Information
Before agreeing to a booking, request the following details:
- Full name (or at least a first name and contact number).
- Phone number (preferably a verifiable mobile number).
- Email address (avoid clients who use disposable or fake emails).
- Location details (hotel name, room number, or exact meeting spot).
- Preferred time and duration of booking.
📌 Tip: Be cautious of clients who hesitate to share basic details or act suspiciously. A genuine client will understand your need for safety.
2. Verify Their Identity
- Google their phone number – You may find reviews, complaints, or reports about them on forums.
- Use screening databases like National Ugly Mugs (NUM) or ClientEye to check if they have been reported.
- Request a selfie holding a piece of paper with the date written on it – this helps confirm their identity.
- Search their name on social media (if possible) to ensure they are who they say they are.
📌 Tip: If a client refuses basic verification steps, it could be a red flag.
3. Speak to the Client Before Meeting
A quick phone or video call can help assess:
✔️ Their tone and attitude – Are they respectful?
✔️ Their intentions – Are they clear about what they want?
✔️ Their responsiveness – Do they hesitate or avoid answering direct questions?
📌 Tip: Avoid clients who only want to text and refuse a call. Many scammers or dangerous individuals try to avoid verbal communication.
4. Look Out for Red Flags
🚨 Warning signs of a potentially dangerous or unreliable client:
❌ They refuse to provide any personal information.
❌ They ask for risky services (e.g., bareback).
❌ They pressure you to break your boundaries.
❌ They become aggressive or overly persistent.
❌ They offer huge amounts of money upfront (often a scam).
❌ They refuse to meet in a public or safe location.
📌 Tip: If something feels off, trust your instincts and walk away. Your safety is more important than a booking.
5. Use a Work Phone & Keep Your Information Private
- Avoid giving out your personal number – use a separate work phone or an encrypted calling app like Signal.
- Never share real personal details like your home address, full name, or social media accounts.
- Consider using a VPN to keep your location private when communicating online.
📌 Tip: Protecting your privacy prevents clients from misusing your personal details.
6. Meet in a Safe Location
- If possible, choose the location yourself rather than going to a client’s home.
- If meeting at a hotel, ensure it is a reputable registered venue.
- Avoid remote or unfamiliar areas where escape may be difficult.
- Arrange a safe call system – tell a friend when and where you are meeting the client, and agree on a check-in time.
📌 Tip: If meeting in a hotel, consider using a fake check-in call – a quick call where you pretend to check in with a friend to let the client know someone is aware of your whereabouts.
7. Trust Your Instincts & Say No When Needed
If a client:
❌ Tries to negotiate prices aggressively
❌ Disrespects your boundaries
❌ Becomes rude or aggressive
❌ Makes you feel uneasy
Then don’t go through with the booking. Saying no is your right, and your safety always comes first.
📌 Tip: Never feel pressured to take a booking that doesn’t feel right. The right clients will respect your boundaries.
Final Thoughts: Safety First
Screening clients is a crucial step in staying safe as an escort. By implementing these precautions, you can reduce risks and ensure that your work environment remains as secure as possible.
At Intimate Link, we are committed to supporting escorts with safety resources, advice, and tools to protect your well-being. Stay vigilant, trust your instincts, and always prioritise your safety.
For more tips and support, visit our Sex Worker Safety Hub. 💜